How to Build a Magnetic Positive Attitude - Evolution's Revolution

How to Build a Magnetic Positive Attitude: Hey there! In this article, we will be sharing 10 Proven Practical Strategies that you can use in order to build a positive attitude. So without wasting any much of your time, let's get straight into the topic.

How to Build a Positive Attitude

Before moving on, let's first understand that What is a Positive attitude? and What are its benefits?

Some of the Ideas and Tips were taken from the Book YOU CAN WIN by Shiv Khera.


What is a Positive attitude?

So, what do you mean by having a positive attitude?

A positive attitude is a mindset or a positive perspective that you have in front of your difficulties or tough situations. The real test of a positive person is how well he/she manages to remain calm and composed during turbulent times.

A positive attitude helps a person to see the positive side of life instead of criticizing others for his failures. This attitude also helps to create a mindset that looks for opportunities. A positive attitude also helps you to perform at your best in your workplace.

So, Now you know exactly what positive attitude means, Here are a few benefits of Positive attitude.

What are the Benefits of Positive Attitude?

Building a positive attitude can have various benefits like:

  • It Increases your productivity.
  • It helps you to look at the positive side of the situations.
  • It helps you to recognize opportunities.
  • It helps you to build great relations with the wonderful people around you.
  • It keeps your mind calm.
  • It helps to increase your motivation level and also enhances your self-esteem.

According to the author, Shiv Khera, 3 Factors determine a person's attitude.
  • Environment
  • Experience
  • Education
Now let's look at the 12 Strategies to build a Magnetic Positive Attitude.

Is a Positive Attitude necessary for Success?

Yes. Positive Attitude does play an important rule in a person's success journey. A Good attitude plays the role of a mentor that always keeps motivating us and reminding us of our true potential. As I said, Positivity is not a feeling. It is a Characteristic that only a few people possess.

But, developing a positive attitude can help you to become successful. You will no longer be accompanied by the negativity that you encounter in the form of a few people or any other thing. It boosts your morale and as a result, you get to your goals faster than ever.


#1: Always Look for Positive:

How to Build a Positive Attitude

You as a Human Being are programmed to look at the negative side first. It's because our mindset and our thinking are shaped by our parents and society.

Instead of looking at the downside and mistakes of a person, we should look at the abilities and the positive side of the individual. Most of the people nowadays don't want to encourage the good things that are happening in society. But they will not forget to spread negativity all around.

You should change your focus from looking at the negative side to start browsing the positive side first.
Every person in front of you has various qualities that are meant to be encouraged. 

So, start applauding the people around you and start recognizing and praising their qualities which will help you to stand out as an influential person.

You may have noticed that successful and charismatic people always appreciate their team. Why?

Because they always look for the positive Instead of Negative.

Always remember that Negative people will not stop criticizing. It's their part-time Job and they do it very well. What you have to do is start looking for the positive and develop a positive attitude towards every situation from NOW onwards!

#2: DO IT NOW:

How to Build a Positive Attitude

Quick Question:
When was the last time that you delayed the work and said -"I will Do It Tomorrow!"?

A positive attitude is accompanied by a positive mindset. And whether you believe it or not, Procrastination is rusting your mindset. What is Procrastination?

Procrastination in simple words would be to delay the task by pushing or forwarding it by saying that- "I will do that One day" And this "One Day" never arrives in the lives of most of the people.

Successful people do not procrastinate. They do not delay the work that they know is important. Procrastination is one of the diseases that don't allow you to become successful in Life.

In order to build a positive attitude, you first need to understand that If you delay your important work then you may feel a lot of burden at the end. As a result, you will be angry and your mind will stop working and you will be regretting that- "I Should have done this task when I had Time".

Time is limited. Everyone, whether a successful person or a person who is struggling to become successful, A millionaire or a beggar is given the same 24 Hrs. a day. But the difference arises on the basis of who is utilizing their time more efficiently.

#3: Gratitude:

How to Build a Positive Attitude

Expressing gratitude is one of the best ways to lift up your mind and to generate a positive mentality. 

What do you mean by Expressing Gratitude?

Expressing gratitude means to thank god for all the good things that he has provided to you. Instead of complaining about the 2 things that you don't have, you should thank the almighty for providing you 2000 reasons to be happy.

How can I express gratitude?

Expressing Gratitude is simple. Here's How?

Step 1: Maintain a Journal:

A journal is a book or a diary or whatever you call it, in which you write down your goals and your dreams that you want to accomplish within a specified time. 

You can also use it to write down powerful gratitude sentences or statements in your morning ritual which will help you to build a positive attitude throughout the day.

Step 2: Write down Gratitude Statements:

Now what you have to do is, You have to write powerful and mood lifting statements which will help you to express gratitude. Few Examples are given below:
  • Thank You, God, for providing me a wonderful and loving Family.
  • Thank You, God, for providing me funny and amazing friends.
  • Thank You, God, for providing me a good meal at least 3 times a day.
  • Thank You, God, for giving me the ability to see the beautiful world around me.

These were the few statements that you can write down in your journal and recite daily during your morning ritual.

Here is a random fact which will help you to remember, How blessed you are, which I had also shared in the article: 25 Secret Habits of Highly Successful People

If you have more than 10$ in your bank account at the end of the day then you are among the top 20% in this world. If you have shelter above your head then you are not among that 30 % who still are hovering around streets in search of shelter. If you are healthy and you don't have any disease then you are among the 5% who are healthy in the world. If you have a decent amount of food that you consume daily then thank god that you are not among those 820 Million people who still sleep without food at night.


Another powerful tip that I want to give you and which I have personally used to build a positive mentality is to recite powerful affirmations.

Affirmations are the bold statements that you write in your journal or that you continuously recite to motivate yourself, which will give an initial boost during the start of the day.

Few Examples are:
  • I am the best.
  • I will give my 100% Today.
  • I will beat my previous records.
  • I will achieve m goal as fast as I can.
  • I will become rich.
  • I am ready to sacrifice to become successful in Life.
These were the few powerful affirmations that you can use in order to motivate yourself.

#4: Education VS Knowledge: 

How to Build a Positive Attitude

There is a wrong notion among people that we get Educated in Schools or Collages.

But a recent Harvard Study shows that when a person gets a job, 85% of the time it is because of their attitude, and only 15% of the time because of how smart they are.

It's very disappointing to say but it is true that most of the schools teach us that 15% that do not even play an important role in our future.

You, from a young age, were programmed to Cram facts and stuff which are useless. In schools, we get an education, we do not get knowledge.

If you want to build a magnetic personality and a positive attitude then you must get into a continuous education programme. You should read books, newspapers and you should keep yourself up to date.

Learn Moral Values and ethics as it would you to imbibe great positive habits of successful people within you.

#5: Build Positive Self Esteem:

How to Build a Positive Attitude

Building positive Self Esteem can help you to boost your morale which will help you to reach your goals faster and also you will radiate positivity.

Self Esteem is an attitude itself which many Successful people have mastered. If you want to build positive self-esteem then you must believe in yourself. Building self Esteem is an art that you must master in order to become successful.

How to build Self Esteem?

  • First of all, you should believe in yourself.
  • You should analyze your strengths and weaknesses.
  • Don't be too hard on yourself. Sometimes there are situations in which you blame yourself too much. Just don't do that!
  • Believe that you are good enough.
  • Believe that you can change this world for the good.

What lowers Self Esteem?

  • Being Bullied or criticized by peers or friends.
  • Job Problems.
  • Worrying about your appearance too much and thinking that you are not beautiful enough can lower your morale.
  • Lossing self-confidence and shyness can kill your self-esteem.

#6: Stay Away From Negative influences:

Another tip that Author Shiv Khera gives in the Book YOU CAN WIN to build a positive attitude is to stay away from negative influences. Have you heard of the word "Fellowship"?

Spending time with negative people and surrounding can influence your mind and your attitude. Negative people are like Leeches that suck blood from you in order to make you weak. They just can't withstand with the thought that you may succeed.

The old method of retention is still possible. That is, in earlier days we stopped spending time with the people that discouraged us. But this method also works now in the age of social media. You can stop sending messages and start ignoring to stay away from these kinds of people.

Just don't be too hard at Ignoring. You know that you must have been ignoring someone from the last 1 Year, Don't You?

Whenever you will get some achievement and you will become successful in life, there will be a group of people that will hold you back and pull you down.

A Person's character is not only judged by the company he or she keeps but also by the company he or she avoids. 
The author also shares an Interesting story that will help you to understand this concept well. Let me share this story with you:

An Eagle's egg was placed in the nest of chicken. The egg hatched and the little eagle grew up thinking it was a prairie chicken. The eagle did what that prairie chickens did. It scratched in the dirt for seeds. It Clucked and cackled. The eagle never flew more than a few feet because that is what the prairie chicken did. One day he saw an eagle flying gracefully and majestically in the open sky. He asked the prairie chickens: "What is the beautiful bird?" The chickens replied, "That is an eagle. He is an outstanding bird, but you cannot fly like him because you are just a chicken." So the Eagle never gave it a second thought, believing that to be the truth.
He lived the life of and died a prairie chicken, depriving himself of his heritage because of his lack of vision. What a waste! He was born to win but was conditioned to lose.

Negativity does not prevail by only people. It can also radiate through the things we watch, we hear or we say. By reading the book YOU CAN WIN, you will get my point.

So, In order to build a positive attitude, you should stay away from negative people.

#7: Bend the Truth:

How to Build a Positive Attitude

I meet a lot of people who think that they are the only one in this world to have a bad phase in life. They think that the lifestyle of rich people and celebrities is not accompanied by any problems. But it is a wrong notion that many people have.

Every person in this world has some or other kinds of problem, whether they express it or not. So, if you want to build a nice attitude towards people then you must learn to BEND THE TRUTH!

It is one of the best principle or theory that I have learned over the past couple of year which has helped to make my attitude towards people more of a kind and affectionate.

Let's understand this concept with an example:

Let's say that you are driving a car and suddenly another person rushed or overtook you from aside. Your immediate reaction would be to call the person mad and that he/she does not know how to drive. But, it is also possible that the person driving the car was in trouble. Or maybe he/she was rushing towards the hospital to save his friend or a family member which may be sitting or laying down in the backseat of the car.

Like seriously, anything can happen. Try this concept whenever you get angry over someone and it will definitely help you to build a positive mentality.

#8: Start Your Day with Positivity:

How to Build a Positive Attitude

What's better than starting your day with positive thoughts?

Well, I have already said that you should express gratitude and you should write a journal in your morning ritual.

According to Robin Sharma, a person's whole day depends upon his start. And if a person devotes his first 2 hours of the day for himself then throughout the day he will carry a magnetic charm and smile on his face because he will not be tensed.

Here are a few other chores that you can perform during your morning ritual:

  • Meditation: Meditating at least 20 Minutes before starting your day can help you to remain calm and will help you to take right decisions in the right moments.
  • Read Books: Reading books on spirituality or biographies of rich and successful people can help you to build self-confidence and it will also boost your morale. You can READ OUR BLOG TOO!
  • Listening Motivational Podcast: Listening Motivational Podcasts or Youtube video can help you to charge yourself up and perform better throughout the day.
  • Exercising: Exercising is one of the crucial tasks you should do not only for physical fitness but for mental fitness as well.
This quote is one of my favorites by St. Francis of Assisi.

Start By Doing what is necessary, then what is possible, and suddenly you are doing the impossible.

#9: Tame Excitement:

How to Build a Positive Attitude

Excitement is also a crucial factor that will help you to be charismatic and will help you to build a positive attitude.

Excitement is a feeling that you get before performing an adventurous task or Before any big event. Taming Excite is one of the crucial things in life. Excitement can help you to make new friends and can also help you to get rid of your shyness. 

So, try to be excited throughout the day and definitely, you will attract a few good people in your life.

#10: Patience:

How to Build a Positive Attitude

Developing patience can bring that sense of calmness in your life. Many people nowadays are becoming Impatient in their lives. They want to get rich faster, they want to become successful very quickly and these are the people who often search for a shortcut to success in life.

Patience helps to keep your mind composed even in tensed situations. It will help you to cope up with your anger and anxiety.

Robin Sharma Calls these people as VICTIMS.

So, don't be a Victim and try to practice patience.

How Can I Develop Patience? you may ask.

  • Try to sit down on a Chair for at least 20 Minutes without moving. Seems Easy? Try It!
  • There can be many things that may be making you impatient, look for these things and write them down. Now, try to Eliminate these things from your lifestyle as soon as possible.
  • Taking a Break from your hectic schedule will not kill you. Take a break and relax. It will help you to replenish your mind and you will, in turn, feel positive.

So, Developing patience is also one of the Strategies that you can use to build a positive attitude. Developing Patience has a lot of benefits.


Building a positive attitude can be a tough task. But by using these 10 Practical Strategies you can build a magnetic positive attitude. And Believe me, if you use these stratigies in your life then you can yourself see the change in yourself.

Building a Positive Attitude helps you to build strong relations with the wonderful people around you as well as you will achieve those magnetic qualities that most people don't have. So, Whether you are in a meeting or in a Party, A good Attitude will help you to increase our Compassionate nature towards people and yourself.

As a Result, you will not be angry always and you will discuss solutions, Instead of problems that most people do.


For some of you who have forgotten the Tips, Hers is a Quick Recap:
  • Always Look For Positive.
  • Do It NOW
  • Gratitude
  • Education Vs Knowledge
  • Build Positive Self Esteem
  • Stay Away from Negative Influences
  • Bend the Truth
  • Start your day with positivity.
  • Tame Excitement
  • Patience
Few Tips were taken from the book YOU CAN WIN by Shiv Khera. You must read this book in order to win in life!


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